Walking the Road

An angled view of a new piece, “Mangalat”

Kathleen Kirk’s post, “Persistence and Patience”, is a thoughtful description of how she ended up, after several career explorations, being a poet. In her graceful telling, she describes her many forays into other creative fields—music, art, theater, teaching—but none of them evoked the necessary persistence and patience in her that is needed to keep the passion fed and fueled when the work is hard and the way is difficult. Once you find your métier, something shifts. When you are wired for sound, you just have to let go.

I found Kirk’s point of view resonant with my own experience:

I get rejected, accepted, and published all because I am patient and persistent. I have lived through various “trends” in writing, waiting patiently until the thing I do can be appreciated and accepted once again. Beauty has gone out of fashion, and come back. “Nature poems” have been despised, but now everyone is “going green.” Some people equate simplicity of language with simplistic thought, and thus ignore me, while I have always found that the most complex thinking usually requires the greatest clarity of statement. I am not a flashy poet, nor a trendy or political poet. I write about what goes on around me, and inside me.

Paul Auster has said, “Becoming a writer is not a ‘career decision’ like becoming a doctor or a policeman. You don’t choose it so much as get chosen, and once you accept the fact that you’re not fit for anything else, you have to be prepared to walk a long, hard road for the rest of your days.” I am committed to walking this long, hard road and have been on it, in my meandering way, for quite a lovely while.

[The text in this post is from the Slow Muse archives, originally published in 2012.]

6 Replies to “Walking the Road”

  1. Stephanie Hobart says:

    Yup, that’s you, babe!

    1. deborahbarlow says:

      Thanks Stephanie. xoxo

  2. Judy Gardner says:

    Thanks for the help using another email corrected the scrambled problem
    I’m glad as I enjoy getting your newsletters.

  3. ” You don’t choose it so much as get chosen, “…or, as the case may be, what you do is “surrender” to the inevitable and, per your last post on Eno, make surrender an intentional activity down that long hard road.

    1. deborahbarlow says:

      I seem to have a theme these days!

  4. Deborah-
    And I’m so happy you were chosen!!!

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